I live just west of Philly, PA. I have maybe 8 or 9 Pondys from Andy...oldest maybe 350 yrs.
I always let the newly acquired tree sit for 1 full year, to allow it to adjust to my climate. This also gives me time to study the tree, and note any nasty conditions that appear. Always suspect borers or fungus, as Tom suggests, particularly in a collected tree.
I lost a magnificent Rocky Mountain Juniper to borers, so always watch for any signs.
All of my Ponderosas stay outside all year. They freeze solid as a rock in the winter (but they did in their native area, high above Deadwood S. Dakota!), and of course get full sun all year. I tend to keep them a bit on the dry side, even in hot weather. My mix is 1/3 grower grit, 1/3 Co. red lava rock, and 1/3 white pumice...the trees do really well with it. Of course I feed them every 2 weeks, so they stay happy trees....
Don't give up on Ponderosas...get another from Andy, or Todd, and get back in the game!
Flex
BTW...that's my Ponderosa Tom has at the Vault entry door.....